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What the feck have you done today?
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As you say, he’s safe - that’s the ultimate point. And he’ll be better there for himself. My ex father in law went that way…his family fought against it for a while, but it was better for all parties.
Bit late now she’s already binned you.See above
Yep, about 70 holidays agoBit late now she’s already binned you.
I am approaching all this with my Dad at the moment. Luckily for me and my 4 siblings, Dad sorted all the epoa stuff out in 2004 as he thought it would be good to have all the loose ends tied up. I have epoa over the financials, for some reason, and so pay all his bills and monitor his bank accounts etc. in theory it can save a big shitfight when it is deemed necessary to assume full poa.
My youngest, nurse, sister has epoa over his health and wellbeing. He is still in his own house but rapidly approaching the point where he will need fulltime care. Not fun mate, is it?
I'm glad I helped!As we get older try not to judge ourselves by the old you or the young blokes around you but look at the old lads who a fucked and fit for the scrap heap at the same age . It always makes me feel better
I was unaware that you could apply for P.o.A. after the person had lost their marbles. I thought it had to be agreed with them whilst they were still compos mentis.
My OH and I have set up both financial and health P.o.A. Let's hope it's never needed.
We've done the same as I think its very difficult after you go wibbly, hopefully won't be needed
My family had intended to apply for PoA over my Dad's affairs but we (and he - thinking he'd be fine for a while yet) put it off and left it too late. The solicitor came to his hospital bed and but he was unable to sign his name and the doctor was not prepared to declare him of sound mind so it wouldn't have stood if he had signed. In the end it was academic because he didn't live long enough for his personal affairs to need managing. Plus his estate was not huge and was all in trust, and there were no conflicts or disputes within the family.
Where it gets very difficult is when the estate is large enough to require careful management if you're not to lose the lot in taxes or care fees, no trusts have been set up and the person's decline is long and slow and they are left in non compos mentis limbo for many years.
And of course there are at least three common types of PoA -lasting, ordinary, enduring and combined. As well as PoAs applied exclusively to health and welfare.
The thing to do is get the documentation drawn up well in advance while the subject is in perfect health and their wishes are clear and understood by all, just in case. It doesn't need to be invoked ever unless it becomes necessary. It can sit in a drawer and gather dust. But if it is needed it's just a case signatures and witnesses and it's good to go. Trying to thresh out all the details once the person has become ill and the family is in distress is a nightmare.
Where it gets very difficult is when the estate is large enough to require careful management if you're not to lose the lot in taxes or care fees, no trusts have been set up and the person's decline is long and slow and they are left in non compos mentis limbo for many years.
And of course there are at least three common types of PoA -lasting, ordinary, enduring and combined. As well as PoAs applied exclusively to health and welfare.
The thing to do is get the documentation drawn up well in advance while the subject is in perfect health and their wishes are clear and understood by all, just in case. It doesn't need to be invoked ever unless it becomes necessary. It can sit in a drawer and gather dust. But if it is needed it's just a case signatures and witnesses and it's good to go. Trying to thresh out all the details once the person has become ill and the family is in distress is a nightmare.
Starter upgrade complete - sounds different now (the starter motor) - fired up straight away....cant really test anymore than that as the previous starter was totally random when it went "slow" see how it goes. Took about 3 hours but a sizeable chunk of that was cleaning the liquid gasket off of the generator cover.
Wasnt without stupid fucking mistakes though....only recently changed the oil so i thought... "ill drop that back in" then proceeded to drop the starter motor - covered in rust into said oil....so fresh oil as well...
Wasnt without stupid fucking mistakes though....only recently changed the oil so i thought... "ill drop that back in" then proceeded to drop the starter motor - covered in rust into said oil....so fresh oil as well...
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You dont have to leave it in the drawer. It can be in place long before it's needed.
The thing people dont do is read all the advice and instructions about what the appointed attorneys can and can't do.
To be very basic if the person is of sound mind and does something stupid which the attorneys dont agree with especially where money is concerned The attorneys have no say or control to prevent it
My brother has been dealing with this and I asked him tonight about the late application of the financial power of attorney. Dad on occasions is quite with it so my brother was able to discuss with him on one of those occasions, the financial poa which dad then signed. It also has to be co signed by my brother and two others which was done. It goes off to be verified and completed, it takes about 8-9 weeks
The guy I was playing said something about a woman who did Windermere the straight away went and did either Ullswater or Coniston (can’t recall which) - I didn’t realise it was so popular